Student Experience

The move-in advice your student may keep forever

UVA parents are big supporters of the University. One way they do that is through UVA’s Parent Hub, a one-stop source for information and resources to help families support their students. Nearly 60,000 parents receive regular email newsletters distributed through the hub. (Illustrations by Meredith Michael Smith, University Communications)

The University of Virginia will soon be buzzing with the arrival of new students to Grounds.

Yes, there is an Easter egg in that opener. “Grounds” is UVA lingo for campus, one of the things that distinguishes the University from other schools. Another thing is passionate parents and guardians, who are among UVA’s biggest boosters and love helping each other.

So, as your student’s dorm supply pile grows in your living room, some veteran parents have stepped forward to share tried-and-true tips to make moving in and saying “See you soon” a little easier. Be sure to read to the end for one dad’s touching tip, which is sure to become one of your student’s most cherished heirlooms.

Leslie Ilany, fourth-year parent

I’m a bit of a worrier, but my Hoo gave me some of the best advice when he told me not to worry because “Everything works out.” And he’s been right! Academics, social life, clubs, career, self-care, life in general – things may not go the way they hope or expect at first, but it does all work out!

On a practical note, move-in is a busy and potentially emotional day, so my advice there is to bring water and snacks, extra trash bags and zip ties. Take pictures and pack Kleenex for the ride home or back to the hotel. If time and interest allow, explore the area – there’s so much to do and enjoy around Charlottesville!

Claire Meade, second-year parent

We put together a very narrow little nightstand at home and brought it with us, but a shelving unit (we bought to put) over the fridge/microwave we built on site.

The rooms are small, but with good storage. It’s amazing how much stuff you can fit in there and still be functional! I swear, I think my kid took almost a dozen of those big blue IKEA bags full of things!

Latina Johnson, second-year parent

For the parents, give your Hoo grace. But send them knowing things such as cleaning up after themselves, how to properly wash clothes, and manners. The individuals who clean the common areas of the dorms are not their maids; respect them as well.

(Parents,) don’t expect a call every day. (Tell your students to use) the buddy system. Use those office hours even if they think they have it all together.

Rosemarie Manger Levenson, fourth-year parent

Don’t overbuy! From the mom who overbought, LOL.

Here is the advice I gave both my college kids: It only takes a few seconds of courage to meet new people. Everyone is looking for their people! Smile!

Steven Frohlich, second-year parent

Skip the big goodbye speech. They won’t remember a word of it. Instead, write a handwritten note and tuck it where they’ll find it a day or two later. Your advice, in your handwriting, becomes something they keep and reread when they’re homesick or looking for a compass.