Ray Roberts thought he had blown his chance to play football at the University of Virginia. The chance to become the first member of his family to graduate from college. The chance for a better life.
During a late-summer practice in 1987, Roberts – just starting his first year at UVA – got into a scuffle with a teammate, sparking a full-on fracas between members of the offensive and defensive lines that Cavalier head football coach George Welsh was right in the middle of.
“Coach Welsh was screaming at me, ‘Stop the fighting, Roberts!’” recalled Roberts in a high-pitched voice, imitating Welsh’s. “But I didn’t hear him and the next thing I know he’s climbing on my back and hitting me with his hat and telling me to get off the field.”
When Roberts tried to return to practice after things had calmed down, Welsh again told him to get lost. It was at that moment that Roberts believed he might have to head home to Asheville, North Carolina.
“I thought, ‘Did I just lose my scholarship?’” Roberts said.
As it turned out, Roberts hadn’t blown his chance. Welsh just wanted him to cool down for the day.
Thirty-one years later, Roberts and the dozens of former teammates he remains in touch with still chuckle over the incident.
“I’ll never forget it,” former UVA quarterback Shawn Moore said. “When George jumped on him, everyone was shocked – but deep down everyone was dying laughing.”
“I wasn’t there, but I’ve heard the story,” said former UVA defensive end Chris Slade, who was two years behind Roberts. “It was legendary. Everybody knew about it and still talks about it.”
Even Welsh.
“I remember jumping on his back,” Welsh said. “That’s a true story. It was just one of those spur-of-the-moment things.”
Roberts did eventually return to the field and Welsh’s good graces, and went on to become a first-team All-American. He was drafted in the first round by the NFL’s Seattle Seahawks and was later part of the offensive line that helped Detroit Lions Hall-of-Famer Barry Sanders rush for more than 2,000 yards when he was the league’s Most Valuable Player in 1997.
Discussing his football accomplishments isn’t what gets Roberts’ juices flowing, though. While he’s proud of everything he did on the gridiron, he seems most excited when he talks about his current endeavor, which focuses on giving students with intellectual disabilities chances of their own.
Since July 2017, Roberts has worked for Special Olympics as the director of Unified Champion Schools for urban development. A Unified Champion School uses a combination of unified sports (sports combining students with and without intellectual disabilities), inclusive leadership programs and whole-school engagement as a way to promote acceptance, respect and inclusion for all students.
The 6-foot-6 Roberts, who weighed 320 pounds during his playing days, wants students with intellectual disabilities to figuratively jump on his back so he can lead them out of the shadows.
In non-Unified Champion Schools, “We put [students with intellectual disabilities] in classrooms and hallways in school that nobody goes down,” he said. “We don’t let them eat in the same lunch room. They don’t get to wear their high school colors on teams.
“So to know you’re giving them the opportunity to get high-fives walking down the hallway, to have friends to sit with at the lunch table, to be in classrooms with their peers and creating lifelong relationships, is unbelievably gratifying.
“It doesn’t make the work easy. It does get frustrating at times and hard. But the goal is to get inclusion to that one person. That’s what keeps me going.”